Joining a good Lifestyle website is by far the quickest and safest way to meet like-minded friends in your area.
There are hundreds of websites on the Internet aimed at swingers. But beware! Not all lifestyle websites are the same!
(Extracted and modified with kind permission from www.couplesdoingit.com)
Does the homepage uses an overly sexualized vocabulary
"Meet people for sex tonight!" or "Millions of horny swingers want to meet you now!" or "Meet hot members for no-strings-attached sex!"
The promise that "hot" members will want to have no-strings-attached sex with you is utterly ridiculous. These sites are not run by people who actually know anything about real swingers. They don't care who's joining, just as long as they're paying.
KiwiKlub is a South African swingers community, run by real swingers with years of experience in the lifestyle! We also host our OWN swinger parties which Kiwiklub members can attend. We place our focus on real profiles, real content and the local aspect of this lifestyle. For us local IS lekker!
Does the homepage contains tons of pornographic images
Once again, this is a sign that the site is just targeting horny people with spare cash, not real swingers or lifestylers. Yes, sexy or erotic images make sense on an Adult website, but if the images are downright pornographic or distastful… run!
Anyone can go download sexy pictures from the Internet , but most times these aren't remotely connected to the actual website.
Apart from member-uploaded pictures, every single picture on KiwiKlub was taken by us at one of our events or functions. Everything is local and everything is real! Our events gallery alone has more than 15 000 pictures taken at local parties and featuring actual members who attend our parties!
Do you have to pay extra for extra features
Some websites have different levels of paid membership access based on how much you pay. You pay upfront to join, then have to pay more to access certain features of the site (such as more revealing photos). It basically means that anyone with the spare cash can look at your intimate photos, no matter who they are!
KiwiKlub offers both basic (free) and full member (paid) options. We advise you upfront exactly what you are getting with your membership. Everything is included in the paid option...there are no additional fees for bolt-ons, add-ons, premium upgrades or other extras! And our members can decide for themselves who gets to be their friends and view their photos
Does it have lots of porn ads or pop-ups?
Besides being horribly annoying, if a website is advertising porn or other adult themed sites (like live webcam girls or penis enlargement), it means that site was probably created as a 'get rich quick' scheme, and the owners do not really have the members best interests in mind.
KiwiKlub is all about real swingers and local content. There is virtually no advertising on KiwiKlub, other than for parties, events and activities directly related to our lifestyle. Yes, we do have some discreet banner adverts, but these do not interfere or distract from the website content in any way
Does the site advertise extensively on porn sites
If you've seen a lot of ads for particular swinger site while cruising your porn sites….then so has everyone else!
A perfect example is Adult Friend Finder, which advertises mostly on porn sites. Do you really want to be on a website full of people who discovered it while masturbating?
KiwiKlub does not advertise on porn or escort sites. You also will not see any advertising on KiwiKlub, other than for parties, events and activities directly related to our lifestyle.
Do they allow you to search their members without logging in
Do we really need to explain why this is bad? Some sites actually have a search function right on their homepage, allowing anyone to view a list of thumbnail images of their members. Wow, doesn't this scare you? And worse, 9 times out of 10, once you buy a membership, you'll find that those members aren't even active!
Privacy actually means something to us.....thats why we are so careful with everything we do and publish. The owners of the site are actual members too, so we share and understand our members need for privacy!
KiwiKlub.com is committed to building a true open-minded South African society, one that is free from sexual prejudices, stereotypes and societal judgement.
We are swingers, we are adults and we like it that way!!!
Isn't this exactly what you want too?